There is so much on my mind right now. One minute I’m worrying about how to teach long division (4th grade math is for the birds), the next I’m daydreaming about the birthday trip I’m going to take when this all passes because my previous plans like all other things are…cancelled. I am trying to focus on positivity, self-care, and honestly – just taking it one day at a time.

Inspired by one of my favorite authors who closes every podcast with this question to her guest “What is saving your life right now?”, I thought that would be a fun series for my blog.
I’m excited to share the first blog in a series of three: Faith, Food, All the Feels.

Q: Faith: What is saving my life right now?
A: Quiet Time, Daily Devotional, and Journaling
 
Last fall, I started a new habit. A daily devotional coupled with journaling. Since mornings are the quietest time in my house and I am easily a morning person, the Monday morning following Daylight Savings time, I set my alarm for 5am and have never looked back. (Until quarantine that is. Currently, wakeup time has shifted to 7am, so one of my worries right now is trying to reset my body’s clock when this passes.) My morning alone time with coffee, my thoughts, and Jesus are truly some of my favorite moments in the day. As an introvert, this morning time is gold. I need it now more than ever!

I’m currently reading Jesus Calling Enjoying Peace in His Presence by Sarah Young, and I would personally recommend it if you’re looking for a devotional. While it does have mixed reviews, I am a fan. I like the daily encouragement and the brevity of each read.

Over the past month, these are a few verses that have jumped out at me. Some helping bring a sense of peace, others reminding me to be thankful and also to look for Him in extraordinary circumstances beyond my control:

• Matthew 6:34 – Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
• Psalm 116:17 – I will offer to you the sacrifice of Thanksgiving, and will call upon the name of the Lord.
• Isaiah 64:8 – Yet, O Lord, you are our father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.
• Hebrews 13:8 – Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

Along with these verses, I'm also using my journal to take notes about our experiences during this quarantine. My journal isn’t fancy. It’s simple, lined paper that is empty and ready for my thoughts. I am currently looking for a new journal, so if you have one that you love, please send me a link! 

While quiet time with my devotional and my thoughts are allowing me a peaceful way to start my day, my inner introvert is on the struggle bus the rest of the day. Fellow introverts, if you have some great tips or tricks to find alone time or recharge during this crisis, let me know. I’m here for it! Some days I walk around the block until I’m dizzy, and I have also been known to leave the house in my actual car listening to a podcast pretending life is normal. I am currently considering a “time-out” chair for myself but I haven’t’ gone that far just yet. Stay tuned.
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So my dear friends, tell me. What is saving your life right now? What are your introvert recommendations? I can't wait to hear.

Stay healthy,
​Monica
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It’s not very often that I feel like I’m witnessing history. But as I type this, I’m working from home at my dining room table sitting next to my daughter who is working on her second day of an Alternate Method of Instruction (AMI) packet.  Meanwhile my husband, a high school teacher, is creating assignments for his class on Google docs in the office right next to us.  All of this is happening on a Tuesday morning, in the comfort of our home. 

I can’t think of anything more abnormal than school and work at home in our PJs (with no make up) on this gloomy day in March, while something called coronavirus, COVID-19, is wreaking havoc internationally.

Every day is new and unchartered territory. The stock market is at recession lows. Schools are cancelled. Working from corporate offices is cancelled.  International travel, cruises, airline travel, and anything that involves groups of more than 10 is cancelled.  Churches in the South…cancelled. Let that sink in.

Pretty much anything fun…it’s all cancelled.  In the world of sports, this month will forever be known as March Sadness with all things sports related…you guessed it, cancelled.

While the introvert in me loves this idea of social distancing to keep the spread of the virus at a minimum, my sense of humor is excited for all of this to pass, so we can really spend some time laughing about the shortage of toilet paper and other strange human behaviors. 

I would also like to acknowledge the cleverness of “March Sadness” and “coronapocalypse”. I’m here for the laughter. Which really is the best medicine. I’m also here for online shopping, so introverts please line up to grab this “Social Distancing Expert” pullover (also available in a t-shirt) from The Shop Forward.

If you’re trying to navigate how to work from home, homeschool your kids, and also not kill anyone, I am doing the same. Wine or beer may help – just sayin’.  But what also may help is a schedule and/or a list of activities to look to when the wheels start to come off the wagon.

Productive things you can do:

• Wash your hands. (Sorry, I couldn’t help but remind you.) And if you want to support at-risk and underserved youth who need more assistance due to school closures, check out this fun t-shirt too.
• Get online and fill out your 2020 census questionnaire. What else do you have to do?
• Clean out your closets, drawers, or other rooms in your house that have been missing out on your attention.
• Move your body. Take a walk, ride, hike, pull some weeds, anything.  Endorphins are not overrated. My Barre studio is closed, so I’m doing it online.  Try it free for 15 days here.
• Revise your budget.
• Read a book. 
• Put your phone down.
• Reach out to your church or a local food bank to see if you can volunteer in some way.

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Productive things your kids can do:

• Chores! This could also double as a craft.  If you don’t have a chore list or chore chart, what better time to create one. They can do this by themselves or with your help.  You house will be so clean by the time they go back to school!
• Read a book.
• Write a story or start a journal.
• Work a puzzle.
• Write thank you notes or letters to family members.
• Write a thank you note to local pediatrician's office thanking staff for taking care of patients during this time.
• Play outside.

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Productive things you can do as a family:

• Have a family meeting.  This can give kids a chance to ask questions and parents a chance to lay some ground rules.
• Create a schedule.  Structure will help both you and your kids know what’s coming. Let them help which will help hold them accountable.
• Cook. Social distancing (and empty store shelves) means most of you are likely eating at home.  Make sure you get your kids to help.  I wrote a whole blog post on this last year, you can find it here.
• Take a hike. Get outside. Hike or walk or bike. Keep your distance from others, but a breath of fresh of air should do everyone some good! If it's a rainy day, work out inside.  My nine year old is doing Barre with me.  You never know what you're kids will be interested in.
• Take a drive.  If you have a little that’s extra stir crazy.  Maybe a game of car bingo will help.
• Play a game together.  Card game. Board game. Word game. They will cherish any of your time, I promise.
• Watch a movie. Or several. Binge watch a show as a family. Or make a list of shows you want to watch. Lily and I love American Idol. Nothing feels more normal than curling up on the couch to watch TV with your favorite people and shows. Grab a blanket. And take some breaths.
• Create a "COVID-19" bucket list of things you can do as a family during this unexpected extra time together. (I stole this from a co-worker today.)

I hope when the ball drops in 2021, we will all lift our hands in praise and say we survived our hardest year. And we also survived The Bachelor: Listen To Your Heart. (Someone please tell me why...oh, why this is a thing. The world is hard right now and I am not here for this show. Can they cancel it because of COVID-19??)

We’re all in this together.  Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends or neighbors.  Maybe to borrow toilet paper. Or maybe to complain about your spouse. It’s fine. They probably need to vent too and they may be able to trade you toilet paper for eggs.
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Stay safe friends.
-Monica
 

My favorite Valentine’s Day candy is without a doubt the heart shaped Snickers. This particular Snickers tastes 100% better when it is shaped like a heart, than in its traditional bar form. Don’t believe me? Go try one.

​Happy Valentine’s Day. And you’re welcome!

Wait, am I reading this right? Is this a dietitian peddling Valentine’s candy? I mean I guess I am, but I’m sincerely telling you that you can take my word for it, or you can try one for yourself. And I’m also telling you that I’m a human and I eat candy too. I will follow that by saying that I try to do so…in moderation. Because that’s what dietitians do. We encourage all foods. (Even Snickers.) In moderation.

That word - moderation - may be boring, but it's a huge component of a healthy diet and a healthy relationship with food. All foods.

When I say all foods.  I mean it.

We cannot stay in ketosis for the rest of our lives. We cannot eat like cavemen from now until our nursing home days. (Can you imagine the nursing home diet orders in 2060? I am laughing out loud, just thinking about it.) Low carbs forever? No, thank you. We also cannot grow 100% of our own food, 100% of the time. We cannot avoid all GMOs, gluten, sugar, dairy, grains, and meat and cannot possibly keep up with Every. Single. Thing. that Kim Kardashian or Gwyneth Paltrow or fill in the blank famous person who doesn't have a degree in nutrition says is bad!

Because there aren’t bad foods. Just bad reputations about foods. Food doesn’t have to be put on a good or bad list. You do not get to be the Santa Claus of foods. Broccoli, nice list. Gluten, naughty list. You get the point.

Should we be eating more fruits and vegetables? Yes.
Should we eat less often? Yes.
Should we eat smaller portions? Yes. 
Should we eat in moderation? Absolutely yes.

As the science of nutrition evolves, we are continuously learning new things. Researchers are currently looking at the potential health benefits of intermittent fasting and even how the bacteria in our intestines influence our health. It’s fascinating. And also, sometimes confusing. While the science is emerging in some areas. It’s considered more solid in others.

Other areas, including added sugars.

Current research shows, here in the U. S., more than 13% of our daily calories come from added sugars, and it's even more (17% of daily calories) for children, adolescents, and young adults. Yikes. Maybe you’re asking, why is that bad? Well, added sugars are simply a source of calories.  That’s it. They don’t add any other nutrients to our diets.

The 2015-2020 Dietary Guidelines for Americans, published every five years, reviews current nutrition research and provides recommendations for the healthy U.S. population. The most current report recommends we keep added sugars to no more than 10% of calories in our diet.

So, what in the world does that mean? That means you have to do math, I guess. And some people hate math, so I’ll do a little for you.

If you’re eating 2,000 calories per day, 10% of calories from added sugars would be 200 calories from added sugars. Again, what does that mean? It means more math.

Carbohydrates (which is the category sugar falls into) have four calories per gram.  So, 200 calories divided by 4 calories per gram is 50 grams of added sugar.  That would be your maximum amount of added sugars per day if you were eating 2,000 calories per day. 50 grams of added sugar. But not all of us need 2,000 calories. Making that number likely smaller for a lot of people.  1,800 calories per day would allow 45 grams of added sugars and 1,500 calories a day would be about 38 grams of added sugars.
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I would assume it’s safe to say that you don’t think of your food in grams. Who does? Making the new FDA compliant nutrition facts panel your BFF. This new format makes it clear and easy to see how many grams of added sugars are in your favorite foods.

If you look right below total sugars, there is now a line that shows you exactly how much of the sugar is added by the manufacturer - "includes Xg added sugars".

Added sugars, confusingly enough, can be listed on a food label as other things besides sugar. When reading the ingredient statement, here are a few examples of common ingredients to look for: agave nectar, high fructose corn syrup, corn syrup, sugar, cane sugar, cane syrup, evaporated cane juice, fructose, sucrose, turbinado sugar, molasses, maltose, malt syrup, invert sugar, honey, corn sweetener, dextrose, maltodextrin, and fruit juice concentrate (depending on how it’s used).

How does the amount of added sugars in your diet stack up?

Limiting added sugars is a fast and easy way to help you make room in your diet for other foods that offer more nutrients. Reading food labels and making simple swaps is an easy place to start.

At the store, compare food labels and choose foods with lower or no added sugars. Try looking at and tackling your added sugars one meal at a time. Is your oatmeal sweetened with sugar? What about your yogurt? Are there lower sugar versions you could try? Or maybe your added sugars are in the liquid form? From coffee creamer to sweet tea and soda, some simple swaps to your beverage choices could be all that you need to cut back your added sugars.   

Remember the guidance does allow some added sugars (moderation!). Pairing moderation with mindfulness and listening to your body will take you a long way. It might even take you to Walgreens to buy a heart shaped Snickers this Valentine’s Day.

If you enjoyed the read or have questions, please let me know. I would love to hear from you, and as always, thanks for stopping by.

Happy Valentine's Day.

XOXO,
​Monica

References:

1. Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2015-2020 Eight Edition. https://health.gov/our-work/food-nutrition/2015-2020-dietary-guidelines/guidelines/
2. FDA Nutrition Facts Panel Changes. https://www.fda.gov/food/food-labeling-nutrition/changes-nutrition-facts-label

Additional Resources:

1. How to Understand and Use the Nutrition Facts Label
2. Looking to Reduce Your Family's Intake of Added Sugars, Here's How 
3. Eating Right with Less Added Sugar

To keep our credentials, dietitians are required to have 75 hours of continuing education every five years. Most medical professionals have similar continuing education requirements as do several other career paths including teachers, real estate agents, and lawyers. We all understand why. BECAUSE THINGS CHANGE. In our collective fields of study – things change, a lot. The way teachers teach (and the things teachers teach), the laws that govern our states, the science of food and nutrition, advances in medical science – they change! So of course, yes, we need continuing education to stay well-informed.

Personally, I make time for it. I schedule it. I sign up for it. It’s on my radar. Professional development. Check.

So why then, is personal growth and development not on my radar? Or spiritual growth and development? Hooray for you if it is on your radar! But as an adult, it hasn’t always been on mine.

I don’t know if it has to do with maturity level, life experiences, a mid-life crisis (perhaps?) or all of the above. But the idea of personal growth didn’t resonate with me until I went back to school in 2016. During that time, I didn’t have an extra minute to devote to personal growth but the amount of time I spent on school made me realize that if I had time to pursue a Master’s degree, while working full time and being a wife and mother too, then I had time once I was done with school to work on my personal and spiritual self.

And that’s what I’m doing now. Or trying to do. I’m figuring things out as I go. I’m listening to podcasts, I’m reading books, I’m challenging myself physically and spiritually.  I’m making lots of lists because they bring me joy (and also motivation) and trying to figure out what my next decade will look like. (Happy New Year by the way!)

Most of the podcasts I listen to are women who inspire me. These are women I’ve never met inspiring me to be my best self every day. (Thank you, BTW, Jen Hatmaker, Gretchen Rubin, The Big Boo Cast, and Jamie Ivey...because I'm certain all of you read my blog.)

Several years ago, I had the pleasure of hearing John Register, a Paralympic athlete, speak at a work conference. I was so engaged in his inspirational story that the only notes I took down during the entire hour-long presentation were this:
Inspiration leads to motivation.
Motivation leads to action.
Action leads to results.
Those will either inspire or create your new normal every day.
 
If you look at the narrative that John provides, these women are doing just that for me.  Leading, inspiring, and motivating. I see this narrative that he describes as a continuous cycle, and I envision us all like little dominoes. Focusing on and changing ourselves for the better, can help motivate and lead to changes in others. That’s really very powerful when you stop and think about it.

As I move through 2020, focusing on myself, I am hoping to accomplish these #20for2020 goals this year, inspired by one of my favorite podcasts, Happier with Gretchen Rubin:

1. Read 20 books in 2020.
2. Move my body (Barre3) at least three days a week.
3. Prioritize date night – once a month.
4. Be intentional with blog content; write a blog post once per month at least.
5. Take a class. (writing, painting, photography, etc.)
6. Hike; get outside more.
7. Declutter – as much as possible!
8. Learn my enneagram number.
9. Visit one new state.
10. Standardize a girls’ night.
11. Spend less money on clothes – wear what I have.
12. Continue morning devotional.
13. Relax more. Slow down.
14. Set five year and ten year goals.
15. Try something new.
16. Start a new tradition.
17. Drink more water.
18. Print more pictures and/or make annual Shutterfly book.
19. Be Monica.
20. Focus on peace. (My one word theme for 2020 is peace.)

I will leave you with this quote from Brené Brown, another inspirational stranger in my life.
 
“People may call what happens at midlife ‘a crisis’, but it’s not. It’s an unraveling – a time when you feel a desperate pull to live the life you want to live, not the one you’re ‘supposed’ to live. The unraveling is a time when you are challenged by the universe to let go of who you think you are supposed to be and to embrace who you are.” – Brené Brown
 
Cheers to a new year of being who you’re supposed to be, friends.
 
XOXO,
Monica

January 1, 2019 seems like at least 100 years ago.

2019, at times, was a blur. It was full of big events including a surgery, big excitement including a first trip to Walt Disney World, and I’m very happy to report, big success in the form of new habits. 

My 2019 New Year’s resolutions included reading more books, becoming more tech savvy, and implementing a new morning devotional routine.

I would like to credit one of my favorite authors with helping me put several new practices in place this year. If you haven't already, check out Gretchen Rubin's website, podcast (Happier with Gretchen Rubin) or any of her books.

One of Gretchen’s tactics for making habit changes is this: “Identify the problem.”  This first step has been a game changer. It’s so simple, and so obvious. But it really has worked for me in 2019. 
 
One of my goals this year was to read at least one book per month. Around April and May, I had exhausted the list of books I was interested in reading. It wasn't that I didn't have time to read. I would find myself in the library feeling completely overwhelmed (shocking I know). Sometimes, coming home with at least six books only to find…I had zero interest in any of them.

Asking friends for recommendations sometimes played out and googling “Top books of ______”, worked some too. But it was requiring a lot more research and energy than I was interested in putting forward.

I channeled my inner Gretchen Rubin, and thought "What exactly is the problem here?" Finding books I was interested in. 
 
There are probably several things I could've done but the obvious one to jump out at me: Join a book club! And then later in the year, another solution: find a reading partner. I’ve done both this year and am happy to report (drumroll please), I read a total of 17 books this year! (My goal was 12!)
 
If you like to read and are looking for recommendations, I thought I would share my 2019 reading list (in no specific order):  

1. Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens.
2. How to Walk Away by Katherine Center.
3. The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins.
4. Women in Sunlight by Frances Mayes.
5. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone by J.K. Rowling.
6. The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin.
7. Church of the Small Things by Melanie Shankle.
8. Washington Black by Esi Edugyan.
9. The Sound of Gravel by Ruth Wariner.
10. Lillian Boxfish Takes a Walk by Kathleen Rooney.
11. Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis.
12. Me Talk Pretty One Day by Dave Dedaris.
13. The Book of Polly by Kathy Hepinstall.
14. Why We Get Fat: And What To Do About It by Gary Taubes.
15. Tell Me More by Kelly Corrigan.
16. This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel.
17. A Sloth’s Guide to Taking it Easy by Sarah Jackson

 
If you’re looking to read more in 2020 and need a little help (or whatever it is your resolution is), take the Gretchen Rubin approach and first, identify the problem. It's a great way to get you on the path to new habits next year!

I hope your 2020 is full of joy, health, and happiness.
Happy New Year, friends!

XOXO,
​Monica

 I saw a meme on Monday that said, “Just remember: it might be Monday but it’s a short week that ends with pie and shopping. We can do this.” And I’ve never felt more understood in my life.  This is easily one of my favorite weeks of the year.  It’s a short work week for me that involves cooking, food, and family.  It’s finally ok with the world to decorate for Christmas. AND black Friday is within reach. Who could ask for more?

Today I’m sharing my Black Friday shopping tips AND my first official Holiday Gift Guide: Kitchen Edition.  So, grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice), a blanket, snuggle in on the couch, and keep reading! 

The first year my sister and I decided to shop on Black Friday was a BIG learning experience. We went completely unprepared with purses too big, shoes too hot, no game plan, and spent at least two hours in line at Kohl’s together solving the world’s problems. You live, you learn. 

If you’re planning to shop in person this Friday, here are my top 5 tips for a successful Black Friday:

1. Grab the newspaper Thursday morning and while the guys are napping from a tryptophan overload, gather round the sale papers with your Sister, Mom, or girlfriends and decide where you’re going, what time, and what’s on your must have list.  Make a list on your phone or a paper list but either way – firm up your plans.
2. Leave your purse at home. Throw your debit cards, credit cards and store coupons in a tiny wristlet and call it done!  If you don't have a wristlet, find your smallest crossbody bag. The important thing is to have something you won't have to carry. 
3. Dress in layers and comfy shoes. Obvi. I know.
4. Don’t leave home without snacks and/or drinks!  Keep them in the car for refueling. Being hangry in a crowd of strangers…you could end up on the news…just sayin’.
5. Don’t go alone.  If possible, a two-people minimum is best for Black Friday. Here’s why. The thing I hate the most about Black Friday?  The lines.  They are long.  Sometimes 2+ hours long.  So, as soon as you get into the store, one of you needs to go straight to the line, while the others starts shopping. Taking turns holding your place in line will be key to a pleasant and successful shopping experience.  It will save you hours of time!  You’re welcome and happy shopping!!

 
Speaking of shopping.  I put together a few fun gift ideas for the chef in your family, including links to each. If Black Friday shopping at the store is not your jam, then you’re just one click away from starting your Christmas shopping!  Congrats, and here goes:

• I’m obsessed with cheese boards. If you are too, you should check out The Baker Mama on Instagram and prepare to be inspired.  Once you’re inspired, you will want to order a fun cheese board or two and channel your inner foodie. If it’s in your budget, the Baker Mama’s cookbook - Beautiful Boards would be a great add-on gift.
• On a similar note, a cutting board in the shape of your foodie’s home state also makes a thoughtful gift.
• If you like your food fast but are trying to cut back on fast food…I have a feeling the Instant Pot could save the day. From what I hear, it can cook a pot roast in under 90 minutes, rice in 20 minutes and dry beans in about 40 minutes. This gadget is on my personal Christmas list this year (SO EXCITED) and the 6-quart Instant Pot is on sale for Black Friday at Walmart for $49!  It made Walmart’s Best Gift of 2019 list. So, it must be good, right?  A cookbook would also make a great add on for this gift, because several people I’ve talked to say these pots are teensy bit intimidating. I’m ready though!
• For the festive chef in your life, I think this set of stainless steel egg molds would be a hit. I love that they are so versatile. You could use them for eggs, to cut cookies, or as pancake molds as well.  A festive birthday breakfast for the kiddos in your house would be a piece of cake!
• Everyone could use an extra tea towel. If your foodie friends' sense of humor is similar to mine, they will surely love the Shiraleah tea towels at Target. My two favorites are “Sir Mix-a-Lot” with a hand mixer on it and “Whip it. Whip it Good.”, with a whisk.  Target also has cute Christmas tea towels.  You can’t go wrong with either.
• Silicone molds can be used for ice cubes, soap, or candy, making them a fun gift for grownups and little ones.
• Personalized gifts are so much fun to make and to gift.  I use Shutterfly ALL THE TIME to make personalized gifts.  From pot holders, to coffee cups or mugs, and aprons, the opportunities on Shutterfly are truly endless for adding lots of love to any kitchen.
• I didn’t even know this was a thing until recently, but I want one for myself. This ground beef chopper helps break up large pieces of ground beef while you’re cooking.  Simple, easy, and stocking appropriate. You could also make a basket of small fun foodie focused items and add this phone holder for recipe ease, meal planning tear pad, digital food thermometer, and their favorite spices or snacks!

That’s it for the very first Faith, Food, All the feels Holiday Gift Guide!  I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it!
 
I wish you all a safe and Happy Thanksgiving. Travel safe, be safe with your food, and please download the app “Is My Food Safe?” to help you answer questions like “Is it done yet?” and “Time to toss?”.  It’s an excellent tool for any home cook.

My final tip to you: "Stuff your turkey, not yourself."  I saw this on Instagram last year and thought it was cute. Practicing mindful eating this week may help you stay on track with your health goals.

Cheers friends!
XOXO,
Monica

Teal probably isn’t the first color you think of when you think of Halloween but, the color’s popularity this October is on the rise. Is teal the new orange? It just might be! The Teal Pumpkin Project®, which started in 2014, is a colorful way to raise awareness around food allergies and promote inclusion of all trick-or-treaters. With estimates of one in 13 children having a food allergy, according to the Food Allergy Research & Education (FARE), it’s pretty likely one of those little monsters, superheroes, or princesses at your door this year will have a food allergy. Wouldn’t it be cool for them to see support from a stranger? I think so too!  That’s why I’m participating in the #tealpumpkinproject and hoping you will too.​

This week, I’m sharing my dinner menu and some fun tips to get your family engaged at meal time in honor of National Family Meals Month™!  As a Mom, and a dietitian, I am so excited to be a part of this movement to raise awareness around the benefits of family meals. 

Fun Facts on Family Meals (1)

• Kids who eat family meals consume more fruits and veggies! We all need to increase our fruits and vegetables, so this is great news for the whole family.
• Family meals have decreased by 1/3 over the past 20 years! Yikes! I'm not surprised by this statistic based on how busy we all are in general, and I would add that this gives us plenty of room for improvement!
• Kids who share meals with their family more than three times per week are less likely to be overweight, more likely to eat healthy foods, and less likely to have eating disorders. Here is where the dietitian in me gets excited, so pull up a chair and keep reading.
• Regular family meals are linked to higher grades and self-esteem in children. Give your family an A+ the next time you all sit down together, and take turns sharing ways you think you can commit to one more meal together this week.

Are you on board yet? I am.

I thought it would fun to share my menu this week, including short cuts or tips when it comes to meal time for our family and also some tricks to get your family engaged at mealtime. 

Monica's Menu, Meal Tips and the Rules of Engagement: 
Monday: Jambalaya with corn on the cob and sliced fresh veggies.

• Meal tip: My secret jambalaya recipe is no secret at all.  I use a box of Zatarain's and add shrimp as the protein. The corn on the cob is frozen and takes exactly seven minutes to boil (so easy)!  And I slice all my vegetables on Sunday afternoon to eliminate this step during the week.  It also makes packing lunches easier too.
• ​​Engagement tip: I’ve written about this before, but Manners Monday is something I implemented to teach my daughter (and remind myself) about the importance of good table manners!  We’ve made it into a game and keep score because apparently my daughter is just as competitive as her Dad!

Tuesday: Fast Food.

• Meal tip: Eating out during the week not typical for us, but it is softball season and a double header softball game for my daughter leaves us no time for cooking!  Technically, I could use the Crock Pot on nights like this (or Instant Pot for those of you who have those) but we voted and fast food won out tonight.
• Engagement tip: Put the phones, tablets, and any electronic devices away.  Out of sight, on silent.

Wednesday: Zucchini and spinach rigatoni, breadstick, and a side of fresh fruit.

• Meal tip: I've made this recipe once before and as promised, it made it's way to our menu rotation.  It's an easy and very delicious meatless option if you're looking for a vegetarian dish.  The frozen breadstick is ready is six minutes and the fruit is also something I wash/cut on Sunday afternoon, making it an easy to grab side. This meal start to finish will take about 40 minutes.
• Engagement tip: Turn the TV off.  My husband tries to mute it and that just doesn’t work.  He ends up staring at the TV, and then I have to be the bad guy.  Just turn it off. Trust me.

Thursday: Chicken alfredo with sliced fresh veggies and fruit.

• Meal tip: This meal is super easy.  Box of pasta + jar of alfredo sauce + protein of your choice.  Sometimes I use shrimp, other times chicken.  The chicken can be as easy (frozen fully cooked) or more time consuming (raw chicken I cook/prep myself). We have another softball game tonight, so I'm opting for the fully cooked version. (In full disclosure, I work for Tyson Foods, Inc.)
• Engagement tip: Assign (or draw out of a hat) jobs or duties for meal time.  This can be setting the table, chopping the veggies, cleaning the kitchen, doing the dishes, choosing the recipe, cooking the meal, or planning some table topics. It can be as involved as you make it! And it takes the pressure off one person to "do it all".

Friday: Guido’s Pizza (out). 

• Meal tip: Cut yourself some slack. I do every Friday.  It's impossible to cook every single night, and for us, this is our Friday night ritual. I also use this extra time to plan the next week’s menu and order my groceries online.
• Engagement tip: Talk. Ask questions. Play a table topic game, a word game, or have everyone share something positive about their day. You may be surprised what you find out!  Before dinner, my daughter brings her daily folder from school to the table so my husband and I can review what’s going on with her and what we need to know, do, or sign for school.  This is typically pretty fast but a great way for my husband and I to stay connected to what’s happening at school, in the classroom, and bonus - it typically helps start a conversation around all things school.

​As you are settling in to your back to school routine, September is the perfect time hit the reset button on family meal time or tweak your routine just a little.  No one knows better what will work for your family than you. If dinners are hectic with too many schedules to work around, maybe breakfast or lunch would be easier? Do that. Make that work. And have fun!! 

​I love this recipe for a family meal: appetites, eaters, food, time & place!

If you’re with me, Raise Your Mitt to Commit™ to one more meal at home per week.  That’s it! For more information about this movement, follow The Food Marketing Institute Foundation at https://www.fmi.org/family-meals/our-mission

I hope you enjoyed the read and would be happy to hear any meal tips, tricks or fun things your family does at mealtime too?

XOXO,
Monica
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References:
(1). Food Marketing Institute: https://www.fmi.org/family-meals-month/meals-matter 

Give me all the coffee memes.  Every. Single. One. I love humor + I love coffee…so combine those in a million memes and I will double tap every time. I enjoy them ALL. My love of coffee has blossomed over the past several years. I don’t know exactly when it happened, but in the more recent years of my adult life I have become (gasp) somewhat of a coffee snob. The first step is admitting it, right?

My favorite coffee is Saturday coffee. Amiright?! But seriously, if we're talking brands, I'm truly a Starbucks fan as a weekly treat, a McCafe kind of girl to keep with my daily budget (their K-cups are perfect for me), but I'm truly a Joyhouse fan when it comes to local businesses.  I just wish they were on my path to work. (Sigh.) 

A few years ago, on a trip to Haiti, I touched my lips to the most delicious cup of coffee I had ever had (pictured). I initially wasn’t sure if it was the coffee or the sugar cane that I was enjoying the most, because I am usually a Splenda girl, not a sugar girl, but I can say without hesitation now. It was certainly the coffee that I was enjoying! During that trip, and subsequent trips after, I bought several bags of Haitian coffee to bring back to the U.S.  I stored them in my freezer until eventually, those bags ran out.  Funny how that works.  Brew coffee, drink coffee, run out of coffee.

Lucky for me, Joyhouse, a local coffee shop, sources their coffee from Haiti. If you’re in my area, go in, have some coffee and thank me later.  If you’re not in my area, order the coffee online, brew it at home, and thank me later.
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Not only is this coffee delicious, there’s an amazing story behind the business model. “Drink coffee. Change a life,” this is the mantra for Joyhouse.  Their coffee creates jobs for people in Haiti and a portion of the profits go back to Haiti by supporting organizations that provide “shelter, nutrition, education, medical care, and sustainable jobs”, according to the Joyhouse website.

I love the model for this local business.  I love their Haitian coffee.  I love helping others. So, join me in celebrating National Coffee Month and go check out this coffee and the story at https://joyhousecoffee.com/ .

I'm always up for trying new coffee, so send me the name of your local favorites!  I would love to try them if I can.  Cheers to the upcoming weekend, Saturday coffee, and coffee memes!  Here are a few of my favorite.  Happy Friday!
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For me, nothing tastes more like summer than fresh cut watermelon.  It’s easily one of my favorite summer foods and brings back sweet (pun intended) childhood memories like fork fighting with my sister over the biggest, juiciest pieces, and seeing who could spit their seeds the farthest.

July is national watermelon month and I can’t think of more deserving summer fruit. Packed with water and phytonutrients that give it that beautiful red color, my favorite melon is shining bright this July. According to the Watermelon Board, 80% of Americans buy watermelon because it tastes good but less than half of those folks know much about the health benefits of watermelon (1).
 
If you fit into that statistic, well then, prepare to be informed! Watermelon is delicious and nutritious, so cut yourself another slice and pull up a chair.

It’s summer. Which means it’s hot and humid here in Arkansas. Appropriately named, watermelon, is 92% water, making it an easy food to quench your thirst this summer. Pack some up for the park, a hike, the lake, the pool, or anywhere you’re planning to work up a sweat or soak up some sun. Speaking of sun, that brings me to my next point.

Watermelon contains high levels of lycopene, an antioxidant carotenoid that gives it its red color. Lycopene has been studied for various health benefits including possible roles in reducing the risk of heart disease and various cancers AND…protection to skin from harmful UV rays (2). As a redhead who loves watermelon, this is fantastic news to me! Lycopene levels in watermelon are higher than any other fresh fruit or vegetable, giving it the fun title of Lycopene Leader.

So, add another slice to your plate, throw some on your salad, or drop another piece in your smoothie! In addition to lycopene, you’ll be adding potassium, fiber, vitamin C, vitamin A and for a 1 cup serving…only 45 calories.
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While peak watermelon season is considered April to October, July is National Watermelon Month and August 3rd is national watermelon day! Next time you’re in the grocery store, find the perfect melon without dents or bruises, look for a creamy yellow belly (no need to thump it) and put it to your cart!

If you have questions like “How do I pick a good watermelon?” or “Why is my seedless watermelon full of white seeds?”, you can visit the Watermelon Board’s website for answers AND really more than you ever thought you needed to know about watermelon, from fun recipes to fun facts! (i.e. Early explorers used watermelons as canteens.) Nature’s canteen sounds heavy to me! #wimp

Because watermelon is naturally sweet, there are millions of ways to serve it up deliciously.  Here are a few of my favorites:

• Watermelon Cut Outs – so fun for kids (and honestly for adults too!) Any metal cookie cutter will work! My daughter and I used teddy bears and stars. They are fun to make and even more fun to eat!
• Smoothie – This watermelon/kiwi smoothie sounds refreshing.
• Cocktail or mocktail I would choose the cocktail but either way, these both sound like fun patio drinks. Sign. Me. Up!
• Infused water – did I mention it was hot here in Arkansas?  Sometimes I like to infuse my water to change things up.  It’s easy to stay hydrated with infused water.  Add watermelon, along with any of your other favorite fruits.

Bonus for my dietitian friends, check out the toolkit the Watermelon Board put together. It's full of awesome content, including recipes and cooking demonstrations.

Happy July, friends.  Go enjoy the rest of your summer and share your favorite watermelon recipes with me!  I would love to try them!

References:
(1)2017 Watermelon Purchaser Survey, conducted by MyPoints.com, Inc, August 2017.
(2) https://www.watermelon.org/assets/Nutrition/WatermelonsTKFinal.pdf